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     With more than 800 million Facebook active users today, located in every country on earth and in more than 70 languages, the social media giant has quickly become the social networking choice of most American teens today. For many teens, Facebook is more than just a fun and convenient means of social interaction; it has become for most an essential component of their teenage lifestyle. Unfortunately, there are very real negative consequences to teen Facebook use, namely predator attacks, stalking, cyberbullying and other dangers. This is a reality which has most American parents of teens justifiably concerned - some parents more so than others. And while most parents have concerns, many feel as though they are uninformed or adequately equipped to monitor their child’s activity. Others feel the responsibility of protecting their teen lies with the media provider. The answer to protection and child safety must be found in the shared partnership of responsibility of both parent and Facebook.

 

Protecting a child’s privacy and safety, needs to be a shared responsibility, a concept which Facebook and its developers seem to understand. To support this, Facebook has developed new security tools and privacy settings within their system. Additionally, Facebook has recently expanded its law enforcement relations division which monitors online conversations and shares questionable activity with various local law enforcement agencies. In fact in July of 2012, Facebook shared with Winnipeg, Manitoba police, information that eventually led to the arrest and conviction of a known sex offender who was engaging in highly inappropriate activity with a 13 year old girl (Santin, 2012).

 

 

 

          Currently, 38 percent of all American teens on Facebook, or 7.5 million teen users, are below the minimum age of thirteen and even more troubling is the fact that 4 percent of children on Facebook are 6 years old and under. In other words, 800,000 American kindergartners are Facebook users. Based on a MinorMonitor survey taken of 1,000 American parents of Facebook teen users, 74 percent have valid concerns for the child’s safety, and of those, only 50 percent monitor their teen’s Facebook account by accessing it with or without the teen’s approval or knowledge. Twenty-four percent monitor teen accounts by “friending” them, which Mike Betron, VP and General Manager of MinorMonitor, says is an extremely ineffective way of monitoring dangerous activities and may provide parents with a false-sense of security since most children are still able to take part in private conversations and share private material without parental knowledge. Most troubling of all is that according to the survey, 17 percent of the parents admitted they do not monitor their children’s Facebook activities at all (Lenhart, Purcell, Smith & Zickuhr, 2010).

 

 

      So armed with these facts, what safety measures should parents take to safeguard their teen’s online experience? A big first step is education - knowing what resources are available and how to use them. *Active monitoring is also essential which may include the placement of the family computer in an open household location. *Recording login passwords and credentials ensure the parent is always able to access all Facebook accounts. *Looking for children’s online friends whose names may not be familiar and when they appear to be new, make a point of inquiring about their identity. *Today there are dozens of parental control software programs that assist the parent in logging activity as well as options for blocking and filtering certain material. *Require that pictures posted online meet with parental approval. Images may not be appropriate in many ways; those that are explicit and sexually provocative or images that may reveal one’s location or other private information. *Apart from close friends known to the parent, online buddies should remain online. No secret meetings or gatherings should be allowed without permission. *Taking an active part in reviewing children’s online logs, history and profiles. *Being an active participant in ensuring your child’s safety should be every parent’s responsibility.

     

     In 2011, Facebook developed Social Reporting, a new tool to assist parents in reporting problems encountered with inappropriate Facebook activity, contacts and images. The new reporting system allows a parent to block or report a person whom the parent believes is violating the law. The report generated is strictly confidential.

 

     As the world’s largest social media outlet, based on real lives with real names and real identities, Facebook has become a large part of most teen’s “real-life” and because of this, children need parental guidance and support as they navigate both adolescence and their online social life. It is critical that teens understand the long-term and immediate consequences of what they say, share, and upload online. With this understanding teens will know how much better and rewarding their social media experiences will be if they maintain healthy relationships in both their online and real-life communities.

Resources

Collier, A., & Magid, L. (2012). A parents’ guide to facebook. In A. Collier (Ed.). Retrieved from http://connectsafely.org

 

Lenhart, A., Purcell, P., Smith, A., & Zickuhr, K. (2010). Social media and young adults In A. Lenhart (Ed.), Pew Internet. Retrieved from http://www.pewinternet.org/Reports/2010/Social-Media-and-Young-Adults/Summary-of-Findings.aspx

 

Santin, A. (2012, Aug 17). Facebook helps nab alleged sexual predator. Winnipeg Free Press

Retrieved from http://search.proquest.com/docview/1033772180?accountid=14872

     Facebook has within its privacy settings and controls, special safeguards, which are specifically designed to protect teens 13 to 18 years of age. *Search: Teens can’t be listed in public searches. *Image Tagging: Only friends and friends of friends can tag teens. If a friend tags a minor, the tag is visible to anyone who can see the post on Facebook or within apps and games. *Audience: The maximum audience that a teen can share with is friends of friends. Teens can, however, post in a public forum and any comments they make to a post can be seen by anyone else who can see that post. *Location-sharing is turned off by default, but teens can turn it on. *Subscribe: It’s not possible to subscribe to a teen’s posts or timeline. Teens can, however, subscribe to anyone’s posts. *Friend requests: Only friends and friends of friends can send messages to teens. *Messages: This function is turned off by default, but teens can turn it on. *Chat: Teens can only chat with friends. *Advertising: Facebook will not display advertisements to teens about adult content, alcohol, dating, gambling and others (Collier & Magid, 2012).

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Written by:  Steve Grand Pré

The Facebook Lifestyle

Image courtesy of http://www.minormonitor.com/

 

  
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